Morning Sickness

August 25, 2008 · Filed under Uncategorized · Tagged , ,

Most of my friend told me that during the 1st trimester, life is quite miserable due to morning sickness. Thankfully I didnt encounter any bad sickness.  I was safely going through my 1st trimester without any vomiting or dizziness.

Our cousin sister was having very bad experience throughout her nine month pregnancy. Ever since she conceived her baby, she don’t have appetite to eat and she keep spitting until the time she go for C-section….even at night she have to put a dustbin next to her for spitting, she dont have good night sleep as well.

Thanks God, my baby very nice to me. I eat and rest as usual…except sometime I feel a bit gassy in my stomach.   My baby make me enjoy the pregnancy very much.

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I am in 3 months..

August 24, 2008 · Filed under Uncategorized · Tagged , ,

My last period was 05/02/08, I was so excited when I missed it.  But again, worries still tangling around me.  This time we waited till almost 3 mths then we go to consult our neighbourhood doctor. She did an ultrasound for us to confirm the fetus heart beating.  Hooray!!…we got it right this round :D

Then we proceed to Dr Kim Wong to reconfirm it. We were so happy to got it right this round, but we decided not to share with anybody until they see my belly…hahaha.  This is the TOP secret. When we inform our parents. My mother in law was so excited but she quietly told us better to keep it secretly…hahaha. She simply make us laugh for the day. My mum was very excited for us too….she keep reminding me what to eat to keep myself fit enough to carry our baby…:P

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My Second try…

August 24, 2008 · Filed under Uncategorized · Tagged , , ,

Its not easy to conquer the fears of my last experience.  But we decided to try it again! If its not going to work then we will thinkfor adoption. Kegan is a very open minded person, he told me that if we really love kids, we should love all the kids. Not necessary must genetically from us.  I feel so lucky to have him in my life, he never give me pressures on anything and we both believe in faith.

My mother in law was abit curious about baby plan but she dont dare because she afraid will give me indirect pressure. She is a very understanding person and always think for others. She is not those typical mother in law we used to hear from friends…fierce; superstitious; power; sensitive; not flexible.  My mother in law very much taking care of both of us, we can sense it through the vegetarian dishes she specially prepare for us most of the time.  In regardless of any trouble she faced, she simply not complaint any.

In such a warm and happy family…i conceived again….:)

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6 months rest.

August 24, 2008 · Filed under Uncategorized · Tagged , , , ,

During my last visit to Dr Kim Wong a week after D&C, sometime early August 2007. We have tons of question to her. What is the cause for the heartbeatless fetus? Any problem with our genetic match? When can we try for baby again?  we were really in doubt and we just dont want the same thing happen again although its physical painless to me.  Most importantly I am running out of time…:(

Dr Kim Wong advise that its all very natural and this is very common. she said about 2/3 of chances to get the chromosome match correctly. She also give us an example, when the fruit is not good it will drop before it goes ripe, so we are lucky its happen at a very early stage.  Nothing we can do with it!!!  About the genetic matching, she ask us to try another time if fail again then will have to go through the genetic test that will cost more than RM1000..at this stage it is not advisable.  After D&C, i should be earsier to conceive and most of her patient conceive again after one month mestruation cycle….but i decided to rest up to 6 months cos i m phobia of it.

One of my friend in her age of 38 was happily conceived a baby after her 7 years of marriage through a process call IUI cost about RM2000 plus. Unfortunately her HGC level start to drop in her 8 weeks and she start to suffer a miscarriage after that. She was pretty sad with her lost but i console her that at least she know she can conceive and she can give another try. She was having a bad experience with Subang Medical, she went through a very bad cramping and bleeding before D&C was carried out on her. She said she never feel such painful before….so she said she can imagine a little how painful during the actual laboring. When we share about our encounterment then only I realized how lucky I am to be able to escape all the pain.

People around us will start to tell us a lot of unrealistic reasons why we lost our child. She felt the pressure from her family too. One of my auntie told me to do more good deed then I will not suffer with this anymore, even some people said because I leak the new to the people around too early so the baby cannot take the pressure and go off. So next time better keep quiet and dont share the good news. These are all in our Chinese culture…hahaha…whether is logic or not its up to you to decide. :D

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My first try…(part 2)

August 24, 2008 · Filed under Uncategorized · Tagged , , ,

We dont have time to really understand the D&C procedure about. So when i arrive hospital its was about 3:30pm…in fact we are a bit late. An India nurse came to me change my clothes and stuck in a pill in my vagina…it takes some of her energy also :P . I used to joke with my friend when i share with them my experience, the feeling when the nurse did on me is like what normally ppl did to a duck before they BBQ the duck.

After a while I was being push in to the operation hall. It was so cooling, i was in the middle and there are 2 nurses standing a side waiting for Dr Wong to come.  Someone came to touch my hand…he is the anesthesia specialist, he told me to relax and he is going to put a needle in my hand. Shortly Dr Kim Wong walk in, her warm smile really warm me up…she said its going to be very easy and fast so no need to worry. After a while i was shut off totally and the next moment i heard someone calling my name it was Dr Wong again…she said its over..then the nurse push me back to my room. My hubby was waiting there and it was just 30mins for the procedure.  Dr Kim Wong came to see me before she go off, she was i was doing very good and very healthy cos I look fresh after the procedure. We spend a night over there…my hubby was hugging me so hard thoughout the night, he really looks so worry for me. Early next morning, Dr Kim Wong came to see me, she advise me to take 1 week maternity food and nothing to “pantang” and after the next menstruation cycle, we should try for baby again…she keep smiling and encourage us. 

 Thanks God its over and I dont feel anything at all….i will be having menstruation for about a week. Only on the 2nd day, suddenly I feel my stomach cramp when i was trying to move my bowel, then i felt something flushed out from my vagina, it was two 50c size blood clots. Then i start to feel a smooth flow over the menstruation and the feeling of my bloated tummy gone. :)

I was taking red dates water, a lot of ginger in my cooking especially the sesame ginger eggs soup and taking warm bath everyday……and its over hahaha!!!! :D

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My first try…(part 1)

August 24, 2008 · Filed under Uncategorized · Tagged , , , ,

I was 32, gave up my 7 years career in Spore  and move back to Malaysia. The only plan is to have baby cos we are a bit late to catch up with the bb train. hahaha.  This time, we had an honeymoon to San Francisco for about 3 weeks and we tell ourself we should make a western baby..:D  It was a fun and romantic, the weather is fantastic.  We really love the place especially “Sausalito”, my dar told me that if he met me earlier and it was at San Francisco, sure we will have a lot more of romance moments…hahaha.

2 months after the trip….:) the PregTest was showing positive…hahaha. We were so excited and speechless. First we inform our parents, the good news has spread out fast to the rest. We decided to go with a female gynea and happen we pick Dr Kim Wong from Pantai Damansara. She was not very friendly on her first impression to us…she sound and react very fast indirectly hinted to us she is pretty busy with her schedule.

1st consultation is to have ultrasound to confirm “YES, i m pregnant and its in the correct position”…I was in 7 weeks.

2nd consulation was requested a week later because we cant see any heartbeat from the fetus. The size of the fetus has grow but still unable to see any heartbeat yet. Dr KimWong advise me to rest more and take a hormone pill -some kind of booster for the next 7 days. And by then we must hear heartbeat…..

Another week gone and we are back to Dr Wong’s clinic at Centre point. It was so nervous to see her in that morning. When she ask me to lie down on the bed, i just keep praying that everything will go fine. Yet, nothing we see and hear….Dr Wong, advised that I am going to face a miscarriage. :( That’s really sound scary to me and this is never in our plan. We were actually planning to go back bentong after that early check up on Saturday. Dr Wong explain that I can go for D&C if I dont want to go through natural miscarriage. We dont know what the hell is that D&C and we have to make our decision the latest by Monday. But over the weekend if natural miscarriage happen i will be suffer with terrible cramp and if my body is not strong enough to flush it out ..then i will hv to do D&C as well. So at last, I was firm to go with D&C immediately. My hubby feel so bad, he is not sure we should wait till Monday or not….we were so GREEN but at last we agreed to do it 2 hrs later…:)

In a hurry, we drive back to SK to pack out stuffs and rush back to Pantai Damansara for the procedure….

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